About Humbled Females


Within the woman there is tremendous capacity  to love, nurture, and please. She is the source from which human life is reborn, her body the gateway through which we all enter the world. For nine months she carries a developing human being in her womb, endures the agony of labor and childbirth, and faithfully cares for her newborn afterward, nurturing it with her milk, her touch, her warmth, and her voice. Throughout the life cycle of her child she remains in service to this growing person’s needs, selflessly extending her mind, body, and spirit for his or her well-being. Each of us came into this world through a woman and most of us did so through her love, sacrifice, and devotion.

Great sacrifice and devotion to those she cares for are not unusual acts for the female. Even women who have little regard for motherhood often still have within them some spark of a nurturing dimension—the intuitiveness of feminine empathy, a natural softness, and an often innate desire to please. It is no mystery a woman will often use these innate qualities to please her mate, too. When her heart is captured, she will do anything to make the one she loves happy and comfortable, often placing her needs as secondary. It is our belief these natural qualities within the female, given the right environment and guidance, serve as a foundation upon which a realized submissivity may be built and overtly embraced, without shame, scorn, or judgment.

Cherishing the natural grace and good of female submission is not a new idea, of course. Since recorded history began, every major culture across the world has depicted the feminine archetype as soft, yielding, nurturing, and passive. While it’s not a very popular idea in the contemporary world today, many nonetheless find value or interest in female submission, in the woman serving her man as his pliant, yielding helpmate and source of sensual pleasure. Humbled Females is a community website that aligns with these values, even though they aren’t particularly in-vogue today. Amidst the cultural ubiquity of female empowerment, we instead advocate the virtue and wisdom of authentic female submission to a noble and worthy male dominance. We believe the dominant male and submissive female archetype, when embraced beyond mere sensual play, is an old and recognizable one for a reason and not simply due to the tired axiom of might makes right. We believe dominant male-submissive female relationships have thrived foremost over the ages because it is a relationship dynamic that simply works.

Humbled Females is an adult Internet community drawing readers from many walks of life, though the one unifying element bringing us together is our heartfelt belief in the good of adult relationships where females overtly and consensually submit to their male counterparts. The paradigm we celebrate here has been called many things in the past. Some refer to it as the natural order, some call it God’s will, while yet others think of it simply in terms of traditional sex roles. However you choose to describe it, passionate female submission to exemplary male dominance is what this web site community is all about. Why? Because that’s the template we believe is most harmonious and fulfilling to the sexes, mentally, physically, and spiritually.

Our site serves as a repository of knowledge and inspiration about this particular way of life, from its lightest to most extreme manifestations. We know this isn’t a site for everyone. Some who come here will vehemently disagree with our views, and that’s quite fine. We’re not out to change the world, but instead reclaim some animal wisdom of our species we believe has been overlooked in the shuffle of modernity. If what we’ve expressed here has managed to strike a chord in you, we invite you to further explore the articles and thoughts expressed here and we hope that you may be inspired to contribute any wisdom you have to share on the natural good of relationships in which females are humble, servile, and attuned to their instinctual feminine nature, a nature we believe is lovingly yielding at its heart, under the right circumstances.


Our Base Tenets


Humbled Females teaches the virtue of real adult female submission to those who are so inclined to pursue this path. We believe such females are best suited as loving, caring, and servile counterparts to their men and families. We’re open to sharing knowledge and inspiration with those who consensually walk this path, or wish to.

We believe in the good in a man, and the potential within him to be a strong source of guidance, discipline, leadership, and protection for a woman. We are committed to exemplifying the excellence of the ideal male archetype and giving dignity back to the male sex, particularly in a surrounding culture that often attempts to marginalize it.

Humbled Females is a safe haven for submissive women who are driven by fantasies of consensual subjugation to their masculine ideals. To that end, we choose to explore how the innate drive for submission to male authority in the female reveals the core of her animal nature, and how best it can be refined as a path for her own carnal and spiritual attunement, a path often enshrouded in the contemporary West’s new directives for the sexes. We believe dependence upon and submission to a man is not degrading, but attractive to the true essence of femininity.

Humbled Females is for adult women who serve their male counterparts consensually with lucid desire and passion. We are devoted to providing literary resources, observation exercises, and further inspiration in refining the female mind toward improved service, loving obedience, and the essence of femininity, which we believe at its heart is yielding, respectful, gentle, and pliant.

We do not believe a woman who lives this way is flawed. While we respect the rights of others to live differently, we do not see the deeply submissive female as inadequate, insufficient, unsound, or out of touch, as many of her contemporary sisters often do. We see a woman who serves her man as a return to the wisdom of her symbiotic animal nature, unclouded by modern assertions that she should do otherwise.

We believe in helping men learn what dominance truly is. We reject the condescending attitudes about maleness culture tends to sell to young men and women and work to dissect its toxic effects, so as to build a foundation of awareness, nobility, inner strength, and character in men, free of misandrist propaganda.

We reject the ideology of modern feminism so prevalent in society. We repudiate modern feminism’s subversive sociopolitical lens that portrays men as entitled villains and sees women absolved always as victims. We condemn socially fashionable male bashing, believing the desire for social equality between male and female is just, but demeaning the male sex to achieve that goal is ignoble and harms both men and women.

We celebrate the sexual force between male and female, and while we believe the erotic is the natural medium through which male and female bond, submission is not only about the sexy stuff. We feel the aspects of emotion, intellect, and spirit in submission are equally important if one aims to be submissive in the truest sense of the word.


Questions & Answers


For whom is this site intended?

This site is for both males and females who have more than a casual interest in female submission, though it’s open to those who are simply curious about it, too. We hope the site will be helpful to those who wish to understand more about the submissive nature of the feminine and the dominant nature of the masculine beyond the theater of diversionary play acting and weekend SM romps.

Is this web site affiliated with any religious organization?

We don’t represent any particular religion. This doesn’t mean we discourage religious practice, however. All major religions were invariably created with male primacy in mind. The role of wives always described as submissive to their husbands within the spiritual edicts of Christian or Islamic faiths, for instance, doesn’t conflict with our message on this site whatsoever.

Please keep in mind, however, that our readers come from many walks of life and thus have many beliefs, some of which may not support notions of a god or intelligent design whatsoever. We feel the virtue of female submission cuts across all social stratums, regardless.

Is this a political site?

No. We do not subscribe to or advocate for conservative or liberal agendas. We take on as neutral a position as we can where it concerns the application of politics, because life is complicated, and no one party seems to be good for our interests. Our natural opponents tend to be from the feminist left, for obvious reasons: what we represent is generally despised by a movement that detests female submission when it goes beyond the safe and consumable borders of “kink.” Because of this, we often appear to be conservative in values, and in some ways, that’s accurate. Then again, considering our liberality within the sexual realm, this often puts us at sharp odds with conservative values. The truth is both extremes are our dire enemies for different reasons. There are many subjects that we’re either “left” or “right” on, and so it’s pointless to embrace one side or the other. Ultimately, we feel you can be on the so-called right or left and still find value here, if real female submission to a man is something you’re serious about. If you’re an extremist from either political side reading this right now, here’s a magical prediction: this community will not appeal to you. You’ll be disgusted with us for one reason or another. Please feel free to simply move on.

Is this site focused only on sex?

Sex is a powerful motivator for all sexually reproducing life on Earth, particularly for human beings. Since the priority to mate is a primal engine behind so many of our complex desires, sexual expressions are often the first to manifest themselves in dominance and submission. Sex is also the essence of what separates male and female and the magnetism therein. It is the reason why there is a male and female, and thus, a man and a woman. Sexual acts of submission are not what this site solely concerns itself with, however. We feel the combined forms of intellectual, emotional, and spiritual submission are just as important to hone if a woman aims to be submissive in the truest sense of the word. There is an equally true reflection of this fact in men: while sexual drive is a key factor in male dominance over females, we do not believe the acts of sex, in and of themselves, are all there is to male dominance.

Sex is multifarious. It can be laced throughout every act of a woman’s devotion without a single moment of direct physical stimulation. It’s so subtle that it’s pointless to separate sexual energy from the equation, just as much as it’s pointless to focus too much on sexual acts devoid of context. This is what separates our community from a typical fetish site that focuses only upon acts and the trappings of those acts. We openly encourage the exploration of what surrounding society now sadly deems to be “alternative sexuality,” but our aims here go much further than acts and delves fully into the psychological and spiritual beauty of this world, too.

Is this another “BDSM” site?

While the BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) community is commonly associated with those who speak about domination and submission, that does not mean we all identify with the common rules and principles it espouses. While some may enjoy the social and commercial movement BDSM has become, others strongly feel they cannot relate to its theatrical and increasingly mainstreamed culture.

BDSM has become so large an umbrella term as to make it often useless in describing what we specifically believe and do in this community. We want to study and define what real submission is—how to nurture and perfect it in women and differentiate it from less sincere and self-serving facades. We want to live this outside of the bedroom, because it’s a part of what we are, not simply something we do for fun. This effort is in opposition to how BDSM is often represented and popularly consumed today.

Isn’t submission a sign of weakness? Shouldn’t women be strong and resist being submissive today?

Weakness is usually regarded as an inadequate quality or feature in a person or thing. When speaking of authentic submission, this couldn’t be any further from the truth. It takes great inner strength to surrender one’s will to another. While a woman’s submissive status may not seem to empower her in an immediately obvious sense, she finds fulfillment through submission, and in so doing, her submission strengthens those benefiting from her labor and love. If what she provides gives others health and happiness, how can this be attributed to weakness?

In many circles of our feminist and supposedly pro-choice society, a woman is often scorned as weak or pitiful by her sisters for openly displaying behavior that is, by their standards, too servile, especially if it’s directed toward a male and beyond of the auspices of BDSM “scenes.” This is an ignorant attack born of contemporary social programming, not an accurate collective understanding of a woman’s diverse value and potential.

Are you against equal rights for women?

No. We are not a hate group, as hard as that might be for some to believe. As an organization and community we do not petition for the removal of women’s rights in society. We believe in social, political, and economic freedom for both sexes. We do, however, have ideas about how the male and female most effectively interact, and that the best masculine and feminine paradigm is one of mutual contrasts, not bland equality and stunting sameness forced by political ideology. We also believe that the dominant male/submissive female archetype is the most effective relationship strategy when lucidly and consensually pursued.

Do you support trans people?

Not in this space. Our community is called Humbled Females for a specific reason, and that is to be precise about our interests. In an effort to remain pure and on point with our directives, we do not support “trans” identities in our community, or the viral politics of gender fluidity. This community is a hetero-normative space. We ask all who wish to join us to keep that in mind and respect that. This is not a declaration of bigotry, but of heartfelt desire to keep our community focused and honest. To be blunt, we neither believe males can become females nor females can become males through emulation and medical mutilation. While we are sympathetic to those who feel “gender dysphoria,” we reject the notion that a man can suddenly be called a woman or woman a man, simply because it’s desired. Biological markers are relevant, and we believe in keeping true to their reality. While we realize some in society may not wish to identify with their gender, that is an issue for more inclusive communities, not ours! Keep that off our site, please.

Who created this site, and why?

This web site was initially created by a small group of like-minded individuals who united under a common vision: to promote the many rewarding aspects of complete and authentic female submission and educate those who may be seeking information about it.

While there are many places to discuss alternative lifestyles of all forms, we felt that there was a dearth of communities focusing exclusively on the subject of hetero-normative dominant male/submissive female relationships. Humbled Females sets aside the general D/s melting pot mentality and gets much more serious and specific about dominance and submission between men and women. We found that in many other communities online, one can only talk about these ideas so much before being censored or ostracized. We wanted to bring the conversation here, safe in our walls, where participants can feel comfortable speaking about these subjects and voicing opinions about the sexes that are not in service to political correctness du jour. Be prepared to engage in direct conversation about female submission, stripped of the fluff of relativity and the tarnish of mainstream attitudes found in so many other places online.

I’m under eighteen. Should I be here?

The natural budding point of intellectual curiosity, sexuality, or ability to comprehend adult ideas starts long before the age of eighteen, but for legal reasons, we must respectfully request all visitors be of legal age when reading and viewing the content on this site. This is not a moral decree from us, but a legal one we’re forced to assert, due to the nature of the society in which we live. We do apologize to all young adults for the restriction. By further accessing our pages and joining our community, you are verifying that you’re 18 years of age. Please do not attempt circumventing this rule. This site is for adults of legal age only.

I’m a concerned parent who would like to block access to this site by my kids. How do I do that?

Again, Humbled Females is an adult site, and this is made abundantly clear. While we have made an effort to provide as many warnings as possible about the content of this website, such warnings can only go as far as describing our content and advising against access to minors. We ask that you monitor the Internet activities of your children and limit their access to adult material. Parental control protections (such as computer hardware, software, or filtering services) are commercially available that may assist you in limiting access to media that is “inappropriate for minors.” Please direct your browser to the following resources for making your device(s) and software child-safe:

  1. https://www.netnanny.com/
  2. https://www.qustodio.com/
  3. https://www.homehalo.net/

Does Humbled Females accept article submissions for the site?

Since its inception, Humbled Females accepted submitted articles from fellow enthusiasts, though we have recently begun to rein in that practice somewhat. We will certainly accept submissions for our articles section and publish them, but only if they are strictly up to par with our editorial standards. We look for writing that is pure in its vision of female submission to male dominance and free of the subversive mythologies present in the ordinary wisdom of D/s enthusiasm, religious zealotry, or rigid traditionalism. It’s quite a balancing act, keeping the intellectual purity of this site maintained against the maelstrom of so many discordant viewpoints and assertions, but we are committed to maintaining the integrity of our collective voice through thoughtful writing to expand the mind, not narrow it. If you’re up for it, visit our submission guidelines page to see if you’d be interested in sending your work to us.

I have a question, comment, or article submission. How can I contact the webmaster administration of this site?

Thank you for your interest. You may contact us at: admin@humbledfemales.net

I signed up for the forums on Humbled Females by opening a free account. I decided it’s not my thing. How can I close my account?

Sometimes people find that this site isn’t quite suited to their tastes or purposes. We’re regretful that this is the case with you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to improve the site and the network. If there was something you were expecting but didn’t find or see, let us know. If you wish to close your account, please contact us at: admin@humbledfemales.net.