New reply from Iwillsubmit
<p>THANKYOU SO MUCH I appreciate all of the information and advice. I do not feel co dependency is playing a role in this as I do have a sense of myself apart from master. In fact it is that very sense of self that lead me out of the relationship in its entirety. The dynamic was not something I am willing to accept and that is where it ends. I have a submission limit and that limit was tested and found to be firm. I feel enlightened by all of the reponses and in fact, have a better undetstanding of myself as a result. I look forward to whatever life has to offer namaste helen</p>
Original Post by Iwillsubmit
Slave as object vs slave as being Human/pet how does it change the dynamic overall?
<p>I am wondering if anybody has any experience with this I find Ultimate freedom in complete submission to master, however I cannot become the object that he deserves for this dynamic. Does anyone have any experience with having a slave that it's not an object but remains human or parapet rather than inanimate object. And how being an object would be better for the master-slave dynamic or how being adamant could be better or worse unable to find any literature thank you</p>