New reply from xwillowx
<p>I've alluded to this before. I'm new. Like you. And guess what? We don't know one one-hundredth of wtf. I think you're beginning to see this. I'm still in the process of learning this. Of learning what it takes to leave me and do Him. Of throwing my ego to the wind. Thats NOT easy. We have been trained for the last 30 years to keep our ego and massage it. Thats a societal expectation borne from Feminist ideals. </p>
<p>I'm super struggling with letting me go. And I think you may be doing the same. Because when it boils down to it… it's about what HE wants, not what WE want. It's as simple as that.</p>
<p>And if you're not ready. It's okay. Get yourself ready. Don't falsely offer a man something you're not willing to actually give. </p>
<p>That's my advice to you and also to myself. <3</p>
Original Post by Iwillsubmit
Slave as object vs slave as being Human/pet how does it change the dynamic overall?
<p>I am wondering if anybody has any experience with this I find Ultimate freedom in complete submission to master, however I cannot become the object that he deserves for this dynamic. Does anyone have any experience with having a slave that it's not an object but remains human or parapet rather than inanimate object. And how being an object would be better for the master-slave dynamic or how being adamant could be better or worse unable to find any literature thank you</p>