June 4, 2020

Humbled Females: new forum reply to Maintenance Spankings

New reply from simonuk

<p>Maintenance spankings for me are akin to discipline spankings, i.e. different from punishments. From my Dominant point of view,  they are beneficial in underlining the roles, the dynamic, a reminder and review of rules and rituals, strengthening the D/s bond and cementing the dynamic within the overall relationship, especially in the beginnings of a new relationship. Further in, they continue to provide that physical and mental connection when punishments are few and far between.  </p>
<p>    Oh, and I enjoy spanking.</p>


Original Post by Steel_Dragon

Maintenance Spankings

<p>Recently became very interested in restarting a regimen of maintenance spankings, but this got me thinking about the different theories and rituals that surround the practice.</p>
<p>So my question has two parts:</p>
<p>First, which kinds of regimens work in your experience? Day vs Night? Before/After meals? Frequency per week? Before sexual use? Mantras? Spank until tears or counting set numbers of strikes? If there is something that worked really well, do share and tell why it worked.</p>
<p>Conversely for part two, if something did NOT work, share that and why you thought it was ineffectual.</p>
<p>Obviously, females can be quite different, and the man's preferences take precedent, but different places I've looked give lots of conflicting ideas and theories, so I'd thought I'd ask you fine men and humble females.</p>

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